I'm a Financial Adviser: This Is How You Can Save for Big Goals Even if You Feel Like You're Barely Getting By

Unless your life's goal is to live off the grid away from societal pressure (which kind of sounds appealing, not going to lie), you must figure out how money and savings work.

Money runs the world. There's no way around it.

Big goals, such as starting a business, buying a home or traveling the world need funding, and you're the only one who cares enough about them to do that.

How can you set money aside when you're juggling rent, groceries, gas and that random $87 vet bill for your cat (again)?

You learn and build better financial habits.

More than 80% of Americans have at least one savings account, according to a NerdWallet survey, and are actively setting money aside for the future (usually emergencies and vacations).

Given that nearly half of Americans say they live paycheck to paycheck, according to a Bank of America analysis, it shows you can still save, even when you're on a tight budget.

However, saving isn't about deprivation. I'll walk you through several practical ways to save for big goals without giving up the small joys that make life livable.

Why you Should Save Even When it Feels Impossible

When you're living paycheck to paycheck, the urge to throw your hands up and say, "What's the point?" is real and valid.

But the cost of not saving is massive.

If you could go back in time and have a conversation with your younger self, the one thing you should convey would be the importance of having an emergency fund.

Things (such as your car or fridge) break down at the least convenient moment, and health scares pop up out of nowhere.

When you don't have any cushion, those moments often lead to credit cards, payday loans or panicked borrowing from family.

Emily Ruby, owner of Greenberg and Ruby Injury Attorneys, offers a word of caution: "I've seen how quickly someone's finances unravel in the case of an unexpected injury. What starts as a hospital bill can explode into months of lost wages, steep rehab costs, home modifications and often, huge stress on family budgets.

"Without proactive financial planning, some families end up depleting savings and delaying or forgoing essential treatments, permanently altering their financial and physical futures."

Although most Americans have a savings account, according to a recent Bankrate survey, nearly 60% wouldn't be able to cover a $1,000 emergency expense from savings.

The lack of a financial safety net takes a toll on finances, mental health, relationships and your sense of control.

Gary Heming, owner and finance director at ABC Finance, advises, "Saving is more than just preparing for emergencies — it's about giving yourself choice and control. Even small amounts set aside regularly can prevent you from relying on debt and give you the flexibility to take advantage of opportunities."

Money in the bank gives you options, such as:

• Walking away from a toxic job
• Taking a sabbatical to avoid burnout
• Making a business investment
• Avoiding unnecessary debt

This kind of flexibility can be life-changing.

How to Make Saving Easier

With savings, it's not the amount that matters the most, but the consistency.

For instance, if you save $5 every month from the age of 10, you will have saved $1,200 by the time you're 30.

If your parents understand the power of compound interest, your $5 per month might become a diversified portfolio that builds wealth and teaches lifelong money discipline.

Sadly, money talk is taboo in many families, so chances are you'd rather get candy with your $5 than learn how to save and invest.

The good news? It's never too late to start learning and building better financial habits.

Here are a few methods, tips and expert recommendations to put you on the right path:

Don't Budget What's Left: Save First

Ever hear about the "pay yourself first" approach? In this case, it's about prioritizing savings above all other expenses.

The key is to use automation and make saving a behind-the-scenes process. Set up a small automatic transfer (up to $50) from your checking account to savings the day your paycheck hits. Your savings account will grow without action on your part.

You can also use apps such as Qapital or Chime to round up your purchases to the nearest dollar and stash the spare change. Treat any surprise money (refunds, rebates, birthday cash) as a boost to your savings, not extras for spending.

Prioritize High-Impact Financial Moves

When money's tight, the right financial moves can make the biggest difference.

Start with the basics:

If you're carrying high-interest debt, tackle that first. Direct any extra funds toward paying off the most expensive debt while making minimum payments on the rest. This one move alone can open your future.

Jason Pack, chief revenue officer at Freedom Debt Relief, puts it this way: "Debt is a barrier to opportunity. Every dollar you pay in interest is a dollar that can't grow toward your goals."

Once debt is under control, focus on building a starter emergency fund. Even $500 can keep a bad week from turning into a financial crisis.

Look for other opportunities to consolidate your savings. If your employer offers a 401(k) match, grab it.

If you have a high-deductible health plan, open a health savings account (HSA). HSAs come with a triple tax advantage: Your contributions are pretax, the money grows tax-free, and withdrawals for qualified medical expenses aren't taxed.

Don't worry about investing in crypto or flipping thrift finds, for now. Nail the fundamentals. You'll be glad you did.

Make it emotional. Money is never just about numbers. It's tied to your stress, your dreams, your identity, even your self-worth. If you want to build a savings habit that sticks, don't make it all about spreadsheets and sacrifice. Make it personal. Make it emotional.

Tie savings to a goal that feels good: a stress-free vacation, a home office, that amazing concert you've been putting off.

Adam Young, CEO and founder at Event Tickets Center, advises, "People who can commit to a greater purpose (even if it's just seeing their favorite band live) find a way to make it happen. In my experience, these people are the ones who have what it takes to go the distance and follow their goals."

Bottom Line

Saving might feel tough when every dollar counts, but every small step forward is progress. You need consistency and purpose to build financial security, and it helps to find a supportive community.

Be patient, keep your goals in sight, and celebrate your wins, no matter how small. With determination and smart choices, you'll learn how to save money and invest in a better future for yourself.